Tired of carrying the weight of EVERYTHING at home on your own?
Feeling like the CEO of your family while your partner waits for instructions?
Ready for your partner to finally understand and support you in the exact ways you need?
you love your partner. You know they’re a good person. But when it comes to truly sharing the mental load, it feels like an impossible battle.
Maybe you’ve tried to explain it before…
How exhausting it is to be the one always planning, organizing, and remembering everything. Maybe you’ve had the same argument a hundred times, only for him to get defensive, shut down, or say he’ll help more…
but nothing actually changes.
This is the conversation your
partner needs to hear.
MENTAL LOAD MAN is a recorded real, raw, intimate conversation with Sam and Chas designed to help men “Notice & Do”—see the invisible workload of managing a home and family, understand what you’ve been trying to say, and start taking proactive action without being asked.
It’ll show your partner how to lead with empathy, listen without defensiveness, and become a more aware, engaged partner.
It’s not about blame. It’s about growth.
We’ve been there. Real change is possible.
It’s not hopeless. This will help.
MENTAL LOAD MAN will:
✅ Open his eyes to the unseen mental load you’ve been carrying
✅ Show him how to move past defensiveness, so he listens without shutting down
✅ Encourage real follow-through, not just promises to “help more”
✅ Give him a roadmap with practical strategies to being a proactive, reliable, and equitable partner
✅ Spark lasting change, so you don’t have to keep having the same exhausting conversations
MENTAL LOAD MAN shows your partner how to overcome common roadblocks in the “mental load conversation” such as:
✅ Understanding the mental load for real: Why it’s actually so much more than he probably assumes
✅ Breaking through defensiveness: How he can be open enough to self-reflect instead of dismissive and invalidating
✅ Listening through frustration: Hearing and believing the valid pain underneath your anger
✅ What equity really means at home: Moving past “tit-for-tat” and keeping score to true balance and proactive support
✅ Good intentions, poor follow-through: Breaking old patterns and finally becoming a reliable partner
✅ Navigating different standards: There’s an easier solution than “meeting in the middle”
✅ The ADHD of it all: Practical strategies for overcoming ADHD-specific struggles
✅ Taking full ownership: Ways he can be totally in charge of tasks so it’s finally off your plate completely
✅ Addressing “what’s in it for me”: How sharing the mental load will make his life better, not harder
…AND MORE!
You shouldn’t have
to do this alone.
We know how hard these conversations can be. That’s why MENTAL LOAD MAN is designed to meet men where they are—so they don’t feel attacked, but they do understand what needs to change.
Let this be the conversation that finally clicks.
faq:
How long is the recorded conversation?
We are working on editing it right now but, when it’s all done, it should be about an hour and a half to an hour and 45 mins total. Substantial enough to really get into it but still accessible, realistic, and non-overwhelming.
How long will I have access to everything?
It’s all yours to keep for forever!
Do you offer refunds?
Sorry, no refunds available.
How do I get access after I purchase?
This is a presale. Everything will be emailed to you by mid-April.
When will the price increase?
This early bird presale pricing is the absolute lowest it will ever be. The price jumps up to $67 on April 8th.
only $50!
*lowest-ever, limited time discount*
MENTAL LOAD MAN includes:
Recorded conversation with Sam and Chas in three formats for easy learning:
-audio (like a podcast!)
-video (watch together!)
-full transcript (reads like a good ebook!)
PDF Guide:
-specific linked resources
-additional answers to common questions
PLEASE NOTE: This is a presale. Once purchased, you will receive the course via email mid-April.